How do you explain to someone you're unhappy?
It's the general consensus that no one wants to feel as though they make their partner unhappy, however there comes a time when people need to realize that one unhappy situation does not need to result in the dissolution of an entire relationship. But, not recognizing the extent of the situation and the emotional toll it takes on your partner can. And why is it that the unhappy partner almost feels wrong for having their feelings hurt?
There is much to be said of communication in a relationship, but it's not always easy to communicate when emotions on a specific topic run high. If you feel that you are completely and totally in love with someone then you should be able to compromise and find a stable ground to walk forward with them on. The situation does not always have to lead to "maybe" and "if, then"; relationships are about bettering yourself with the help of another, not leaving them outside looking in, that's a booty call!
If you've really found someone you can't live without, then don't! Have them by your side even when you're in a place you don't want to be; otherwise, don't be surprised when they start questioning your intentions or whether you truly love them. Because when they walk away you'll only have yourself to blame.
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