Monday, October 1, 2012

Faults

How do you not blame someone?

It may seem strange to say but when a breakup happens it always seems there is someone at fault. The natural feeling is to either hate your ex partner or yourself, but why does it have to be anyone persons fault? Could it be the fault of both? Could it be no ones fault? If it's no ones fault then how did everything come unravelled in the first place and if it's the fault of both then how did it last past a day and  how does one person ruin it so badly that it doesn't fit anymore?

What happens to the puzzle when the piece no longer fits? Is that it, here's a bump in the road time to call it quits keep it moving?

What if you don't want to keep it moving? What if you've tried to keep it moving so many times before and always ended up right back in the relationship, why wouldn't you just let it go?

Letting go is the such a difficult concept! At some point you just have to pretend you don't care and maybe if you're lucky, you'll lie to yourself so much you'll actually start to believe it isn't anyone's fault, you don't care, and you are over it.

1 comment:

  1. Time passes, pain fades...

    They say it takes two to tango, but in some cases, one person just does something that is unforgivable (cheating, verbal or violence)

    In some cases, we just grow apart.

    In any case, it's simply a sign that your time together has run its course, and that there is something better out there for you.

    Remember the good times, hold on to the lessons, and let the pain fade to the background.

    You will find love again.

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